To the Person Whose Sexual Desires
Are Preventing Connection, Causing Confusion, or Shame:
"I WAS LIKE YOU, UNTIL IÂ FOUNDÂ THE SECRET TOÂ DISSOLVING SHAME,
ACHIEVING FULFILLMENT,
ANDÂ ACTUALLYÂ Â DEEPENING INTIMACY!"
True Intimacy And Fulfillment Isn't Just Indulging DESIRES...
It's DECODING Them!
...one need at a time!
There are 5 essential principles you need
if you expect to get
the intimacy, clarity, and self-acceptance that you want
from your desires!
Read on to see how you too can
achieve greater intimacy in your relationships,
clarity, self-acceptance, and true fulfillment
by taking the confusion out of Decoding Desires!
You Might Be Wondering...
"How Did You Discover This?"
I'm Christian, and let me start by saying that I am not a therapist, counselor, or sexologist, by any means!
In fact, I developed this approach as a result of 18 years practicing kink/BDSM and multiple forms of personal development, and finally overcoming my own struggles with shame and intimacy.
For years, I was burdened by shame that held me back from being able to fully connect and develop meaningful, intimate connections.
In the end, every relationship ended because I was unable to be at peace with the desires I had.
It's true what they say you know, we need to love ourselves before we can learn to love an other!
But shame stood in my way.
After many years of searching, I discovered that the key to dissolving this shame, was to understand the purpose of my desires; to fulfill my valid, deeply-rooted and unmet needs!
I was finally free of the shame that had been holding me back for so long.
Once I accepted, even cherished, these parts of myself, I was able to know which relationships were right for me and not.
Even better, I now had the clarity needed to communicate my needs and desires in my relationships, leading to greater intimacy than I ever thought possible!
So, to answer your question, IÂ formulated this approach through many years of heart-ache, struggle, shame, and isolation.
This is why I have put this course together.
To help those who are facing the same challenges and confusion I once was.
If any part of my journey resonates with you...
Then guess what!?
That means that this coure is for you!
And guess what else!?
That also means you no longer have to work through this alone, because you now have someone who has been through this, who knows your challenges, and how to overcome them, right there along side you!
5
Transformative PRINCIPLES That Are Captured In This Course To Make Sure ItÂ
WORKS For You Too!
RESULTS:
1
Greater understanding about where some of your most challenging desires come from and why you have them.
2
Clarity about the relationships between your desires and their underlying needs and trauma, allowing you to see them in a new light.
3
Clear steps to begin dissolving shame and resistance tied to your desires so that negatively charged emotions can stop holding you back from finding fulfillment and intimacy.
4
Exploring healthy ways of fulfilling your needs while making sure to respect the consent, needs, boundaries, and safety of everyone involved.
5
Tools for healthy communication to share your new-found understanding of desires and needs so you can connect and find greater intimacy within your relationships.
With Results Like These:
“Christians' expertise, care, and support has been immensely helpful to unearth the remaining blockages in my heart and body."Â
"...brought me immense clarity on topics that had been foggy for me for YEARS!"
“Christian has helped me immensely and I continue to be extremely satisfied with his approach!"
It's No Wonder Clients Are RAVING About
My Unique Approach to Demystifying Desires!
DO YOU CURRENTLY SUFFER FROMÂ LIMITED CONNECTION AND INTIMACY?
SHAME OR CONFUSION ABOUT YOUR DESIRES?
If you’re like most who have read this far, you’re starting to see the real possibility of achieving clarity about your desires and what it will do to get you true, intimate connections and fulfillment... but you’re probably asking yourself,
“How the heck am I supposed to tackle this?!”
What do I even need? How do I even say it? How will this help me find intimacy? And how do I make sure I’m going at it in a way that is right for me?!  It can be so daunting and intimidating that you avoid it, looking for other ways to stay busy and distracted in your life. And I get it.
But here's a little secret, from someone who has been there before:
DESIRES AREN'T TRULY FULFILLED BY BLINDLY INDULGING...
THEY AREÂ DECODED!
...INTO NEEDS!
You see, there is a RECIPE to decoding desires, and this recipe consists ofÂ
5 steps... or PRINCIPLES. And if you’re missing even just one concept, you run the risk of continuing on, as you have been.
So, just like a classic riddle:
“How do you eat an elephant? A: One bite at a time”
We can ask a similar question:
HOW DO YOUÂ CREATE GREATER INTIMACY
OUTÂ OF YOUR DEEPEST DESIRES?
Answer:
ONE. NEED. AT. A. TIME.
There is also a specific ORDER to each of those concepts. PLUS... each concept
must be understood!
So, what if you had a set of step-by-step instructions for each of those concepts?
Imagine if you could follow these steps with paint-by-numbers precision and
simplicity... EVEN if you’ve never explored what's behind your desires before in your life!
No more overwhelm!
No more wondering if it will work!
No more wasting time or money!
Imagine for just a moment...
...that you had a step-by-step process for understanding, accepting, and communicating EACH of your desires to finally find healthy fulfillment, and deepen connection and intimacy...
...imagine that by completing as little as 3 lessons a day...
...You would have a newfound CLARITY about your desires in just 1 week from
RIGHT NOW!
And you already know once it’s done... it’s done! You’d never have to do it again!
Because you would know how to explore new desires that will inevitably come up!
In fact, we (and our coaching clients) use the exact same process!
Isn’t it great to learn something once and get it to work for you for
the rest of your life?!
Wouldn’t that be nice?
Well, you don’t have to “imagine” any longer. Because... it’s here.
Introducing...
The Simple Step-by-Step System for Achieving The Greatest Clarity About Your Desires YET...
or Your Money Back!
- Detailed training that guides you through the process of achieving self-acceptance and greater intimacy and connection in your relationships!
- Exercises and examples to help solidify and enforce the lesson content, ensuring lasting and effective change!
- Access for a whole year so you can keep expanding your mastery of your desires - I highly recommend going through this course more than once!
...because your needs and desires (and your partners') deserve the best of you!
It’s time to give your desires the liberating love and attention they deserve!
Just like it’s done for our coaching clients:
“Kink is complex and this is where Christians' expertise, care, and support has been immensely helpful,"
"If you have any sexual trauma or feel shame around your erotic expression, hire Christian now and free yourself, too."
AUDE - Coaching Client
Entrepreneur, Personal Coach
"Christian is so attentive, sensitive and incredibly knowledgeable!”
“I’ve done all sorts of therapy in my life. Still, I was genuinely impressed by the amount of details he perceived in my speech that brought me immense clarity on topics that had been foggy for me for YEARS."
FERNANDAÂ -Â Coaching Client
Entrepreneur
“This is Great Christian!
...But What IF I Don’t Know How to Name My Desires?!”
This is about the time where you might be saying, “Yeah Christian, but I don’t even know how to name my desires. Shouldn’t I focus on that first?" NO.
Why Waiting To Struggle BEFORE Decoding Your Desires Is BACKWARDS!
Most people waste months - even years - trying to understand their desires. THEN... they try to fulfill them without ever realizing what need lies beneath the surface. Sound familiar?
...but how do you even know what fulfillment you need if you don't know what the desire is trying to express?!
When you understand your needs first, a whole new world of possibilities for FULFILLMENT opens up, free of shame and resistance!
...and then you can find true fulfillment!
"Wait, Christian! are you saying this training doesn't just help create self-acceptance and intimacy...
...it helps create new ways of FULFILLMENT, too?!"
Yes. That's EXACTLY what I'm saying!Â
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THE GUARANTEE
That Lets You Sleep Easily At Night!
The fact that you’re reading this section means you already know getting clarity about your desires can bring you self-acceptance and greater intimacy in your relationships, but perhaps you still have a bit of doubt. Hesitation. Risk. I get it. Like…
"This sounds too good to be true! How am I supposed to know this is really what I need?”
Well… that’s simple. Try it.
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Test-Drive The Program for 30 Days
When you enroll, you’ll have 30 days to go through EVERYTHING inside the program, and if for whatever reason… and I mean ANY reason… if you don’t feel like this was the best investment you’ve made in finding clarity about your desires, simply email me at [email protected] and we’ll gladly refund your entire investment… no questions asked! Heck! I’ll even let you keep the program! Which means yes! You could totally rip me off here!
"I wholeheartedly recommend taking this step!"
I’ve done a lot of inner work over the years, but the way Christian shows up with his 'clear mirror' and attentiveness has created the kind of healing space that I and my parts have longed for.
I wholeheartedly recommend taking this step and giving yourself this experience!
Cecilia - Coaching Client
THE HARSH TRUTH:
All Your Desires Have A Valid Reason For ExistingÂ
And if you don’t ever learn how to dismantle the shame and resistance to them, how can you really find the healing fulfillment they are trying to bring you?
 So, what is a "desire" really?
Desire:Â A manifestation of parts seeking to fulfill our unmet needs.
So, how would you like to get clarity on why you have these desires, how it is they serve you, and learn to dissolve the barriers to true fulfillment and deeper intimacy in your relationships?
You’ll finally have a confident and clear understanding instead of thoughts like...
“Nobody will accept me...”
“I don’t understand...”
“It's so hard to explain...”
“Why can't I get past this?...”
“Where does this come from?...”
..and so many more BELIEFS that result in turning a blind eye to the true nature of our desires!
Even Harsher Truth: As you read this page, I know you have your OWN beliefs about getting the training you need to decode your desires. Well... I've been there too, in fact, I've structured the course to model the exact steps I needed to take to find self-acceptance, fulfillment, and the intimacy I had been longing for, and it all start by facing and moving past the limiting beliefs that are meant to hold us back!
OK, LET'S RECAP!
When you join Desires Decoded: From Shame to Intimacy, you'll receive instant access to everything you need to TRANSFORM your desires into the greatest fulfillment and intimacy You've Ever Found! Including...
- The Transformative Mindset Shift and Beliefs every person needs to bring true and lasting change to their life.
- In-Depth Exploration of Shadows, their desires, and the shame that burdens them.
- An Inquisitive Look at the underlying source of our desires, and where true fulfillment lies.
- The Healing Integration of desires that will finally bring us confidence and self-acceptance.
- The Essential Guidance needed when sharing our new-found needs and desires with partners, strengthening intimacy.
- Exercises & Examples for each lesson so the concepts we cover make sense and create change!
And much, much more!
You would pay over $3,000 for my private coaching but, you can learn the same tools and framework, at your own pace, and you can get it all for just $97 today!
Just 2 installments of $150 $75
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The Point About Desires Most People GET COMPLETELY WRONG!
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This course is NOT about indulging and giving into every desire that comes along, dismissing what lies beneath the surface...
NO!
This Course is About One Thing:
Helping You Find The Clarity, Fulfillment, And Intimacy You Deserve.
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Think about it! Every great change or transformation you’ve experienced ALWAYS began with a DECISION. Have you ever considered that one of the biggest reasons you're struggling with these problems is because you have been unwilling to make a decision and BACK that decision with committed action?!
How valuable is it when you could simply navigate your most fundamental needs and desires, identify how you might receive fulfillment of all of them, learn to communicate them (enriching connection and intimacy), and then have the opportunity to CHOOSE? Choose to solve this problem or not.
And that’s what you’ll need to do as well: Choose.
If you already have crystal-clear clarity about your desires, needs, parts, shadows, beliefs, and the profound intimacy you desire, you need to be celebrating!
But, if you currently don’t have the intimacy or clarity you desire or - even worse - are struggling with with shame, then your options are simple:
You can choose to do nothing... and then of course nothing changes. The problem just becomes worse.
OR you can choose to be the CAUSE IN THE MATTER and do something about it.
You can choose to avoid the problem all together and hope that it will magically go away (it won’t).
OR you get 100% Committed to doing something about it!
If you choose the latter, then now is your time to get signed up and get started!
Otherwise, you can just click right off this page!
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But CHOOSE Quickly!
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For our “inaugural launch” of Desires Decoded: From Shame to Intimacy, we are only offering a Founder's Rate of 50% discount for a limited time, which means you will never be able to get your hands on this valuable of information at such a low price. Which means there has never been a better time than Right Now to get started!
But if you put this off, what will change? Don’t wait! You can get started today!
Join Now & Transform Your Desires Into The Intimacy You Deserve!
Just 2 installments of $150 $75
(Only Pay $75 Today)
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OR
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"I highly recommend working with Christian!
Christian has helped me immensely and I continue to be extremely satisfied with his approach!
BARNEY - Coaching Client
In CASE There's Anything I Missed, Here are SoME Commonly Asked Questions!
What makes people who have taken this course, and the testimonials I have seen, so successful?
If I’m just getting started and don’t have a good understanding of what I want to get from my desires, is this course good for me?
I’m not the best communicator, will this course help me communicate more sincerely?
How much time will it take to complete this course?
I don’t have a partner, will this still help me?
I lack clarity about my desires and it's getting in the way of connecting more deeply in my relationships, will this course help?
I have ZERO experience with these topics, can I still benfit from this course?
What can I expect when I enroll in Desires Decoded: From Shame to Intimacy?
If I don’t like the course, can I get a refund?
Can my partner go through this course with me?
H​ow long do I have to access this course?
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ANY CLAIMS MADE OF ACTUALÂ OUTCOMES OR EXAMPLES OF ACTUAL RESULTS CAN BE VERIFIED UPON REQUEST. YOUR LEVEL OF SUCCESS IN ATTAINING THE RESULTS CLAIMED IN OUR MATERIALS DEPENDS ON THE TIME YOU DEVOTE TO OUR PROGRAMS, IDEAS, AND TECHNIQUES MENTIONED, YOUR EFFORTS, KNOWLEDGE, AND VARIOUS SKILLS. SINCE THESE FACTORS DIFFER ACCORDING TO THE INDIVIDUAL, WE CANNOT GUARANTEE YOUR SUCCESS OR RESULTS, NOR ARE WE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY OF YOUR ACTIONS.
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